Men, Have You Heard "Not Tonight Honey" & What To Do About it W/Courtney Boyer

Thank you Courtney for being on the People On Dating Podcast!

About Courtney

If you work really hard, follow the rules (and the prescribed path), then you’ll get what you want. And then you’ll be happy. Not only did I work hard, but I worked harder than most. By the time I was 30 years old, I had been married to a successful physician, had three kids, owned two homes, and had a thriving private practice. After years of working hard, I was freaking tired. And I wasn’t happy.

Proving My Worth

Here’s what I know now. I spent most of my life trying to prove my worth. Trying to demonstrate through my accomplishments that I mattered. That I was worthy of love and attention. This led me to being the ultimate overachiever. Chasing that Supermom status.No matter what I did, it was never enough. I consistently pushed myself to be better. Smarter. Thinner. Stronger. Prettier. Hating my body for not being what I thought it should be. Feeling betrayed anytime I walked by a mirror and it reflected back a woman who just couldn’t get it “right.”You know what that led to? Burnout. Disordered Eating. Resentment. Frustration. Anxiety. Depression.

The Need For Approval

It also led to loneliness. When you’re trying to prove that you deserve a seat at the table, you isolate and withdraw from others. Sure, I had lots of acquaintances and friends. And I was really good at putting on a great front that everything was great. All the while, I was desperately seeking the approval and accolades from others.And I got them. The applause. The admiration. But it never filled me up for very long. I found myself chasing that high. That Supermom status. Becoming a slave to a life I wasn’t even happy with. Honestly, it wasn’t until I lost my dad in 2017, a man who was the definition of hard work and “success,” that I realized I’d been sold a lie. We all have.

MY CREDENTIALS

Not all coaches are created equal. In fact, anyone can call themselves a coach, regardless of training or qualifications. One thing that I am incredibly committed to is my own personal development. I intentionally hire coaches and experts to help me be the best version of myself so I can support my clients in their own self discovery journey. I consistently immerse myself in the latest research and techniques. I don’t offer services or tools to clients I haven’t tried firsthand myself. Having integrity is incredibly important to me and I utilize modalities and methods that I truly believe in.

As I continue to understand brain development, I am drawn to the emerging fields of quantum physics, neuropsychology and energy work. I’ve been trained in evidenced-based methods as well as methods that haven’t been fully studied. I hold two Master’s degrees. One in human sexuality and one in mental health counseling. I’m a bit Western medicine and a bit Woo.

Courtney's Value Adds

Women need a connection for sex
Men connect with sex
Make her feel sexually safe
Don't be a victim
Show appreciation for her
And much more........

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Not Tonight, Honey - Courtney Boyer
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